总是觉得还有很多的说不完
不知道应该从哪里说起，也不知道应不应该起说
行李箱好不容易地收拾好了
也随手地把房间整理一遍
看着从小收到打的玩偶、锁匙圈、照片
又随手翻翻小学时的纪念册、中学时的校刊、还有钟六时的 - 钟浪
就这样不知不觉陶醉在以往的回忆里

回忆 - 总是觉得还有很多的说不完
不知道应该从哪里说起，也不知道应不应该起说
行李箱好不容易地收拾好了
心情也好不容易的才收拾好
才发现，回忆没有所谓的‘忘啦’或者‘想不起啦’
也许是经历了时间的消磨，淡了罢了
那段曾经是永恒的

曾经 - 总是觉得还有很多的说不完
不知道应该从哪里说起，也不知道应不应该起说
行李箱好不容易地收拾好了
曾经的行李箱意味着旅行
如今的行李箱意味着全新的开始
并不是害怕长大、并不是害怕离乡背井
只是提不起勇气面对即将会慢慢变成回忆的现在

现在 - 总是觉得还有很多的说不完
不知道应该从哪里说起，也不知道应不应该起说
行李箱好不容易地收拾好了
只能说，那是我们都回不去的从前，光良曹格有那么一句
背包塞满了家用，路就这样开始走，王力宏也有这么一句
是时候把行李箱锁好了，好不容易啊！
好吧，就这样

到最后，还是留下了小小的遗憾 开不了口，下不了手 我还会坚持自己的信仰，再一次相信缘分 缘来、缘去 原来如此 谢谢

Duration: Approximately 6 months
Venue: Fitness Studio, Grand Fitness Gym and home

Hey boy, if you ever read this back, just remember that you are once this fit.

It all started...
...with a dream. Yeah, standard line. Six months ago, I was really nothing, and I never imagined how will I look like right now. Initially, going to the gym was about trying out new things and doing something different. Gradually, the purpose of going to the gym changes. Then, I started to think back how the process happened, and I can clearly tell myself, good job!

It wasn't easy. It wasn't hard.
Building muscles was not that easy as I thought. Previously, I always think that people who go the gym will naturally have big body...until I tried it out myself. Going to the gym is one thing, what you do inside that gym is another thing. I have to admit that I'm quite fortunate to have a friend who is a body builder, in that way, it really saves me a lot of my precious time learning how to handle those equipment and to work out properly and correctly. Things just get easier when you are finally familiar with what are you doing. To continue what you are doing repeatedly, that's the hard thing. Sometimes, you really don't feel like doing anything at all. And sometimes, you just get impatient; you are doing the same workout, day by day, week by week, month by month, and the changes are so minute. Just be patient, as your body don't just grow overnight, as the saying goes, rome is not build in a day. Definitely you'll meet up with people bigger than you, stronger than you, but please don't compare and compete with anyone, make them your motivation and work hard for yourself, it's not about how heavy can you lift, it's about training within your limits and working out effectively.

Motivations...motivating and demotivating!
Whatever you do, please stay motivated. What really motivates me? Too many. Setting a goal at a time, and try to achieve within a time. I like to be inspired, and I allow a lot things to inspire me. Nick Cheung is one of them, even that guy can make it, why can't I make it too? Music inspires me a lot too, in the sense that it's giving me some kind of mental support during workouts, of course, not any love songs please. Mirror is also a kind of motivation, whenever I finished my workout, I usually spend some time flexing my body in front of the mirror, it may sound strange and awkward, but trust me, it really motivates you, to train to harder, and to be better. Well, what's demotivating then? Too many, too. Whatever you do, there will be people who are going to demotivate you. Fact. That's kinda normal. There will time when your friends started to persuade you to stop working out, they meant no harm, but just constantly remind yourself, you are the one getting what you want, no one else. Just take it as a joke and continue to work for what you want. There will be also time when you start to question yourself, 'Why am I doing all these, they are so hard and so heavy...', just do it!

Diet...
The hardest of all is to resist what is going into your mouth! You are what you eat. But honestly, I don't really follow any diet plans. I just have a clean diet whenever it's a workout day and avoided junk foods, that's all. Also spend some time learning nutrition for your body, apart of knowing what food is good for you, it also speeds up the process of getting that kind of body posture you wanted. To be frank, ever since I started all these, my lifestyle changed a lot, I no longer take supper, no late night sleep, no alcohol, never skip any meals. It was very hard to adapt this kind of healthy lifestyle in the early stage, but as time goes by, you'll get used to it. Of course, sometimes, I still cheat, in the way that I will still go for my late night nasi kandar with my friends and still booze a little bit during special occasion.

So this is how my workout meal looks like...

It's really challenging to stick on a clean diet, with Fb and Instagram around, with all those temptations. Haih, sometimes it just feel so wrong! So I usually cajoled myself, 'Just eat whatever you want but make sure you get rid of those extra calories!' Therefore I always gave myself one-day-off, to go eat whatever I want at the Friday night pasar malam. I will be there like every week, just to satisfy my taste buds for a little while. Breaking free! Then the day after, an extra 30 minutes of cardio exercise to balance things up.

Some thoughts, some words to say.
I'm writing all these to inspire myself in the future, but I would be happy if I can inspire whoever is reading this. If I compare my body to those other body builders out there, I'm definitely not in the league. At least, I have tried very hard and gave all in whenever I'm training. I'll be leaving my hometown to further my studies in Sabah, and I'm also afraid that I'll be losing what I'm having right now. Hopefully, there are some facilities there for me to continue to workout. Come to think about it, sometimes I'm really happy for myself, I'm not sure whether is it gifted or what, I just like to dream and to start chasing after my dreams and to make sure I realise that dream. Again I'll say, staying fit or being healthy is not that hard, it really depends on how fit you really want to be. 6 months of discipline and determination proved me right.
Getting ready for the next level. Never stop believing in what you can do and dare to be different!

Adios, Penang. Hola, Sabah!

ROAR !

相隔好几个月后，我又回到了球场上

可能比赛被通知得有点突然，所以也没有做好很多的筹备功夫

说实在的，自己是抱着纯粹想享受打球的心态上场

有点出乎自己预料，竟然侥幸地打进决赛圈

应该是神经失常吧！

有点可惜的是，在苦战三局后，自己还是输了

也许是身体太累了吧，脚却在决赛圈开始抽筋啦

三次抽筋，三次倒地呻吟，三次接受治疗

倒地呻吟的那一幕，肯定丑得很

没关系啦，自己还是把比赛打完

不是自己自夸，但我蛮喜欢自己那战斗到底的精神

感谢对手的慰问、感谢圣约翰救伤队给予的治疗、感谢朋友们的掌声

友谊第一、比赛第二

其实，输赢真的不重要

我很享受昨天的比赛

那会是我最难忘、最值得我珍惜 、最值得我回想起的 - 银牌

我又在打字了。。。

七月的第四个星期到了

怎么啦？不好吗？

不好，伤心找上门了

没想到，竟然又。。。

当然感觉是很不舒服，还是会有一定的难过

这一个星期也肯定会过得很难

不懂，就是有着这一种预感，好强的预感

每当这时候，心情就会变得复杂

复杂当中却带有思念、有无奈、还有坎坷

怎么会这样？

我都尝试着笑着面对，却很虚伪、也很累

应该是时候收拾这种心情了吧

算了吧、忘了吧，因为这样不值得

又想起自己曾经的付出、想起自己曾经的执着

后来，自己又迷失了自己

原来，什么都不是，什么都没有

对不起，伤心战胜了自己

抱歉 让你们看到了我这一面

No longer working, almost everyday at home, doing nothing.
Walao eh, sipek sien leh
Spent most of the reading, well, that's odd, it only happens when I really have nothing to do.
And I don't know whether this is true or not, when you have nothing to do, you tend to fall ill very easily, like, me...
At least something happened this week, giving me something to write about...

C is for charity.
It was last Sunday, when I took part in a charity event, done some meal packing, met some nice people, and to continue to have faith in humanity. Sounded a bit noble, but it's something I usually practice. Giving back to the society and helping out those in need wasn't really that hard. Feeling kinda great when you see the amount of meals packed kept increasing and honestly, unity is something powerful. In short, what's is charity to me? I would say, It's a responsibility towards the society, an attitude towards life, and a commitment towards myself.
By the way, here is a link of what is all about the charity, Stop Hunger Now

And then...
Suddenly, my days in this island became countable. Yes, I'm leaving my beloved island for my studies, counted some boxes in the calendar, and I have 40 days more at here. It was exciting, but I'm not really prepared yet to face this. 40 days left?!! I spent almost 20 years here and the time has come for me leave this place a little while. Come to think about it, it's really a one in a lifetime experience, to go study at a university so far away from home, to temporarily escape from the city life, and to begin a new chapter for myself. It's a bit cool when you actually needed to take an air plane to reach your new school. How about that?

40 days left
I'm not sure how fast or how slow 40 days will pass. At the meantime, suddenly, you felt you have so many things undone yet. It's subtle...trying to make an happy ending. Regretted for some mistakes made earlier on and I began to doubt whether I have enough time to make amend for that. Sadly to admit, I'm not happy at all since the month began. This shouldn't have happened.

Hoping for the best
The fact is, time is running short, whether I like it or not. Having my fingers crossed that things will get better eventually. I believe good times are about to come but I dare not to expect much.

It will get better.

Dear B,

I spent one night thinking about whether should I say something about this or not, and this is for you.
Nothing really that emotional, but I really hope that we can solve this barrier, rationally.

The past few days was not easy, something went wrong, and it's obvious that you and I can feel that, it was awkward. If I knew it was a joke from the beginning, I really won't risk myself asking that kind of question. Now that I'm hoping I can time travel back, so I won't have to feel so bad and regretting what I have asked. To be frank, I wasn't mad, but disappointed, and it lasted for a few hours that day. The hope was high, and then suddenly, I fell from so tall. That's hurt, and I never expected that to happen.

I tried to consider things from your side, maybe you are on some kind of intention, but I believe you are not. Okay, it's hard for you too, being in that kind of situation, I understand. Maybe is who is going is also making things hard for you to find answer to reply me, I understand. Maybe you're also feeling uneasy for what have you said, I understand. But who am I to you, I hope I understand. What have I done wrong? The barrier is growing and I understand if I don't go do something, I'll regret even more.

Now I know I risking myself again writing all these.
When can we talk again? 1-2 days later? 1-2 weeks later? Or..
I don't wish that to happen.

I don't blame you neither I'm mad at you. I just hope that you can be true to me, that's all I wanted.
Because you're really somebody to me. Can we solve this, please?

Sincerely,
Me.

'Nothing hurts more than being disappointed by the single person you thought would never hurt you.'

Finally, some courage to say something about this...

The flash-back...
18th March 2013, probably one of the saddest day in my entire student life. Just so bad, so sad. Never been in such situation, to be frank, and it was just so hard to take it. Hardly believed at what was I holding - my result slip...nearly broke into tears in front of so many people, lucky that I was able to hold it until I reached home...The next two days was totally hell to me, that kind of feeling is far more worse than seeing your crush going out with the other guy...okay, some humour; broke down into tears in front of my family members and I think I freaked them out...It's been so long since I last cried, really cried...This sad moment is really haunting me and I find it hard to get along with it, until...

What was on the mind, at that time?
Disappointment. Dejection. Agony. Frustration. I-NEED-A-SANDBAG.
I can't take it, really, after all those hard work poured in, and this is what I got? Why is the conversion rate so low? Why? Tell me... At that moment, all hopes was gone. The hope of entering my most wanted university was shattered, those prepared admission documents looks so useless, everything was so dead. Was that a dream, no, it's reality.

Where went wrong?
I spent a lot of time thinking, where went wrong? Blamed myself for the lacklustre performance every time this question resurface inside my mind. After so many weeks and months, I think I had something to reply to myself. Perhaps it was because I set my goal too near to the exam date, I'm not sure whether is it valid to make such conclusion, but I think this got something to do with it. I always have this piece of mindset with me, studying is my responsibility, so I just study, having to think that it's just my responsibility, until I realised that I needed a goal to achieve further. Realising this was a bit late...
Of course, they say luck plays a major role when it comes to things like that, but somehow, I just don't wish to consider luck as a contributing factor, it's somehow too discrete, luck can't explain everything. Right?
In short, I should say that I work hard, but not smart. I set goals, but it was not solid enough.

Until...
It was not a easy, picking myself up from that kind of painful experience. I don't wish to repeat how bad is that feeling, but every time I think about it, I just couldn't control myself from feeling dejected. But at least, for now, that kind of feeling is getting better. It was actually a enlightenment from an uncle, apparently a stage-4 nose cancer patient. He is a very healthy living guy, but still got himself diagnosed with such disease. But what he does was not giving up fighting for himself; and I still vividly remembered what he said, 'It's definitely sad to hear for myself, I have cancer? But if I were to stay stationary and do nothing, I won't be here right now with you all.' It came to a point to realise for myself, why are you not moving on? Things won't help if you were to stand there and be sad over the same thing over and over again. For this, I really need to thank this guy, my uncle.

So, what's the plan?
Hmm, honestly, I don't have a plan yet. But what I will do next is, not to expect too much, yea, to work on step by step. While I'm making the past a lesson for myself, I really wished I can fully let go this piece of sorrow when the time comes. I suppose I will be continuing my studies at the far-far-away land, then let it be, I want begin all over again at there. It's a bit sad to admit that, my dreams has been shattered, but I do hope my passion will bring me far, so I can still rebuild my dreams with that.

The off-topic...
Huh, thanks if you're still reading at this point. Well, June is coming to an end! June is not really a month for me, but look at the bright side, it's coming to an end. Haha.
I'm really looking forward for July, a month where I just to want to enjoy myself, reconnect with my friends, hopefully I can get myself a trip to Redang Island, and to stay happy, at least for 31 days?
July, please be kind to me.


Okay, I guess that's it for tonight. Au Revoir.

Ding dong! And it's almost half way through the year already and things just happened that fast...
Allow me to say one thing first: I miss school, so much, so much...

How was life?
The typical way to start a topic. Well, I will call it a 'robotic' life...because everyday is like a repetition. Nothing much happened actually as I'm always doing the same thing most of the time - working. It's getting boring lately, and I even started to think about what to eat for lunch as early as I step inside the office. And you won't how happy I'm whenever I hear "six o'clock p...m...six oooo'clockkkk.....p....m...."
Ya, that was life...but that's only life at the surface. Underneath it? That's the thing. Sorry if I took too long for the intro...haha!

The journey so far...
Everyday is still a challenge to me, in both ways, positive and negative. But I’m glad to say that things are still so far so good. Day in day out, from meeting people of different classes, to learning up things beyond the textbook, to cope with the so-called ‘pressure’ and the list goes on and on…And after 5 months of working, I just felt that I’m beginning to miss out those little things in life – details. I call still recall at the start of the year, I have said that I want to try as much things as possible while I’m young. Without denial, I have been living ‘crazily’ these recent whiles and have tried different things, from lifestyle wise, to material wise, to food wise and to almost everything that is worth trying! No harm trying new stuffs right?
One more thing; I miss school, so much so so much! You know that thing people always say: When you’re at school, you want to leave; When you’re at work, you want to go school…It’s very true. Guess that I have no need to mention what I miss about school, I guess everyone who left school knows this feeling…But what  am I really missing out?

Some observations made...
How do people stay connected? Ask this question to anyone, I bet it’s hard to reach a common consensus. The fact is, I’m beginning to lose contact with friends in the virtual world, as well as in the real world. But what I’m really concern about is for the latter. Fb is no longer the social site I use on a daily basis, but why? I personally find it hard to go keep track on what’s really going on, get bored scrolling continuously just to find something worth reading. Another reason is because I’m afraid of seeing things that will affect me, like mentally or emotionally...Better to play safe than sorry?
What I wanted to say is, I really missed my friends, ya, those form six guys. Ever since graduation, many of us have been heading to different directions, and it seems like something is fading, so slow without you really noticing it, that kind of bond, you know? We still hangout, maybe like once in a few months time, and the last time was a mini gathering with those study mates, until now. I really enjoyed myself whenever they organised gatherings like that, you feel surrounded, you feel safe, you feel warm. I was hoping that I'll get jio-ed every time and I will make myself present every time. We can go have a meal, than a cup of coffee, where all those coffee talks begin, and we can go talk about anything, laugh like nobody's business, and to enjoy ourselves until we can totally lose track of time. That kind of feeling is priceless. As June is approaching, and we are getting nearer to enter university , when can we still gather together, again?

Some lessons learnt...
Have to say, I learnt quite a lot, in the hard way due to my working environment. Learnt to plan ahead, learnt to put on more responsibilities on the shoulder, learnt to protect myself, learnt to talk in the correct way, learnt to be independent. Enough for what happened in work...Have been working out in the gym for the past three months, and one thing good about that place is what my current surroundings is lacking - passion.
That's the one thing most of them share there. Regardless of their sexes, age, or how they look...they just do it. I always have this misconception that yoga was meant for the girls, guess I'm wrong. I always think that dance classes are meant for people with great body figure, guess I'm wrong again.
In the end of the day, what I learnt is that, don't just because someone says you can't do it, then you don't do it, just set yourself free, let the passion flow, and just do it! You haven't seen how well can those plus-sized girls dance, you haven't see how well can men perform in a yoga class...
I can even see my 'barely-visible' six pack in front of the mirror! Opss, sorry yo!

The verdict...
Five long months, seen a lot, learnt a lot, changed a little. Some feelings, they stay inside me, and I'm still struggling to cope with that, and sometimes when the feeling grow so strong, it's just sick to be me. When can I really learn, to let go and to erase that kind of feeling that had been haunting me for so long? Why is this happening to me? More time required, guess so...
Okay, just leave that aside first. That will take a while.
All I need was a listener, a shoulder for me to lean on when I need one. I'm that kind of guy who share good things with people and keep those bad things for myself. That's the problem you see. I got my friends, but friends that I can really talk to...nil. Simply because I don't wish to make my problem part of their problem. And sometimes it's not about the reluctance to voice out, is just that even tho you say it out, would that go make a difference? Keeping mum was just a way to not make things go worse. Most of the time I blog, tweet, just hoping that it could help to ease me a little bit. But it seldom works for me...CAN SOMEONE HEAR MY FUCKING PROBLEM?!! (I think I'm sleepy right now...and sorry if this is making things sounds sad)

What's next?
Just hoping June will arrive earlier and ends earlier, so I can quit my job and to prepare for varsity.
Some things I really want to do, to go travels, either alone or go jio some friends who wants to travel too. Still have no real destination in mind, better start thinking! Then also before varsity, I should really go spend some time reconnecting with those friends that I'm beginning to forget how they look like...
One more month to go, hang on!

Me and my coffee talk.

kia...lim teh, anyone? mai say bo jio



Until the next time.
12.39am
25/5/13

Penang Hill 02.04.2013

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It did not happened in February. So, it'll definitely be this month.
It's already March, a very important month for me though. At one point you realised that this is most probably your last chance to shine, to achieve something as a student, and began to predict what kind of future you'll be having, they are just making me nervous.
Been recently writing university application essay, and I'm still one more paragraph upon completion. Amendment after amendment, yet I still can't find a way to finish it. Should I complete it before I receive my results? Or should I complete it after I receive my results?
..................

I think I'm ready for this...err...but I think I'll really break down if things happened the other way round.
But honestly speaking, just somehow, I got the courage to dream big as the D-day approaches. Whether is this a good sign or not, I'm still pretty much clueless. I don't usually have this kind of courage, perhaps the goal was clear: I want to go somewhere, be someone and achieve something. I do pray that this feeling is not an illusion. Dear March, please be kind to me.

I always hear people say this, "You must be brave enough to dream in order to live with that dream."
Yes, you are right. So, keep calm and continue to believe.

Signing off.

#3.5Pls

离校至今大概有三个半月了吧


那么之后呢，又是怎样一回事？
确实有学习到新的知识
美中不足的是
那些大人的话题，我还是始终融入不入
他们也没有像我以前所认识的人来得善良、热情
可能也因为这样，我又变得不爱开口说话了
现在的生活，挺有规律的
早睡早起，上班下班，半工半读
每天最喜欢听到的时间就是：六点钟
总是期待着回家做自己喜欢做的事情
读读书、听听音乐、写写文章、打打电动、传传简讯
不久前也开始到了健身房去
挺满意目前这样，至少每一天都没有白过

那么之后呢，一些事情也没有在发生了
再也没有，放学后的足球赛
再也没有，那两块钱的干捞粿条
再也没有，上课打瞌睡
再也没有，上厕所没带记录卡的那种刺激感
再也没有，到食堂谈论那一位学妹好看，那一位美丽
再也没有，在班上八卦谁喜欢谁
再也没有，上课偷吃东西
再也没有，上物理节做数学功课
再也没有，花老半天去明白课本里那一段文字在说些什么
再也没有，实验室里的搞怪
现在，每一天都好像过的很一样
选择确实少了一点点

那么之后呢，谁又和谁在一起了，谁又和谁拍拖了？
很都这样的新闻，都只是靠听说
可能在某一个天，看见他们的车子路过，刚好和‘听说’的一样，你就相信了
可能有些谁和谁的新闻，有照片为证，那么你就相信了
可能有些听说是巧合，那么重复性的巧合，就不会是巧合了，你又相信了
还有一种听说就是
你变帅了 她变美了 他变胖了 妳变高了
听说听说就好，也不一定要彻底相信，但是多多少少还是会相信一些



那么之后呢，你还过得好吗？

Chinese New Year is celebrated every year. Receiving angpaos, greeting everyone Gong Xi Fa Cai, wearing new clothes...Things like that remained the same. However, as our generations progress, something just changed, of course, still in a healthy way. Hmm, G.E.N.E.R.A.T.I.O.N.S.

借此机会祝全世界
身体健康   万事如意
平安吉祥   心想事成

一点喜
二点乐
三点美
四点欢
五点福
六点禄
七点吉
八点财
九点寿
十点富
十一点运
十二点 TAK TUNG QING! TAK TUNG QING!

举起手比 ULALALA
没烦恼来开心过年

新年快乐！

A month of only 28 days...and I'm getting a little bit worried

Hey there, I'm back.

January is coming to an end again and I'm really enjoying this month, not only because my birthday falls on this month, or maybe because it is the first month of the year and I still feel fresh doing things I'm doing now. Well, was quite busy for the past few weeks, working! Some new faces, new environment, and my colleagues? They are all much more older than me, making me the youngest worker in the office. At least I can still admit I'm young...

Thinking back of those part-time job I have done while waiting for my results...
I have been a waiter before, back in 2008, 15 years old.
I have been a promoter before, back in 2011, 18 years old.
And now, finally I'm working in a office. A logistics company.

Waiter. Quite a fun job, maybe it is because I'm working for the first time. I like it because finally you're getting paid, although it's just 5 ringgit per hour, but that's quite a lot when you get your pay all at once. Eventually, that was a tough job. Tough in the sense that, those dishes were really heavy, speaking fluent English at that time was quite a challenge to me, having to resist the temptations of those aroma of those dishes and when it happened when you went to work empty-stomach...
Fun part of that job? You get to eat good food over there and drinking free flow of carbonated drinks, although they were those left-overs. I don't really mind about that because when you are really hungry, any food just taste great. Maybe at that time I was a bit too young to work, I tend to get extra care from the group of people who are working there, so...HAHA !!!
If you ask me when is the time you learn to speak well? I think that waiter job was the time.

Promoter. Have to admit, that was a mundane job...Or maybe it is mundane because I am ordered to promote at a not-so-famous-supermarket. Basically, those consumers who went to the supermarket knew what to buy before hand, so no matter how hard you tried to persuade them to buy, they will look and you, then they smile, and walk away... pathetic. Anyway, I was a beer promoter, so I have expected that would happen in a small scale supermarket. But, it was still fun. I met up when a guy, who aced his STPM and is currently at UK under scholarship. On typical days, we usually chat, played poker cards during our working hours, hearing him explaining alcohols to me in terms of chemistry, and also...peeping...on...err...YOU DON'T SAY ! Can't blame us for that, it is just too quiet over there during normal hours.
Although it was much more a sinecure job but a heavy decision was made from there. I was advised to give form six a try, and now, I have completed form six. How time flies...

Working in an office. Finally, a highly anticipated job for me. It's a well-organised workplace to work at. Departments after departments. Computer screens. Fax machines. Photocopy machines. Non-stop phone ringing. Those cool business terms. Office chairs with wheels. A drink-and-eat-whatever-you-want pantry. Sounds professional. Was that fun? Until now, NO !
The workload is real scary. But luckily I'm still able to handle that. I admired my colleagues for them being able to give full commitment towards their job. Or maybe I'm still new to such environment, it took me two weeks to go fully understand how things work, how domestic and international trades run, and also all sorts of ports around the world. It is really an eye opener for me this time. My colleagues have been telling me to be productive and efficient from day one till now, and now I'm 'intoxicated'. And I thought playing Tetris Battle on facebook would trained to me have fast fingers, guess I was wrong...I still type the slowest among them...haih. I got scolded for making mistakes, and sometimes I get accused, things like that happened when messages are conveyed wrongly, and usually that's not my fault, and yet I got scolded for no reason. I'm not sure weather 'scold' is the right word to use or not, or should I say 'scolded in a gentle manner'? Cincai lah...You do this. You do that. You take this go there. You take that from there. You go meet him at 3rd floor. You take this to her at this place...and the list goes on. Again, things like that happens when you are new, and it always happened. But, it's okay to me, I am here to learn.

So, for my friends out there. What I want to say is, if working is still not your core responsibility, then try not make 'earning-money' your first priority. Of course, we work because of the money, but from my personal experience, at this age, it is still about learning. If you focused to much about the money, then perhaps you may lose the fun of learning. We are still young, maybe it is better to lower down the ego-ness and to learn and adapt from the environment you are currently in.

But just because it burns, doesn't meant you're gonna die. You've gotta get up and try and try and try. - P!nk

So this is how container seals look like. Some 'souvenir' for me.

 

柴九哥曾经的一句：“人生有几多个十年？”
那么，人生到底有多少个十年？
不懂。人生的第二个十年，就在今天开始。
十九岁和二十岁，有何差别吗？
有啊！二十岁听起来确实有点老。。。
二十岁的今晚，想起曾经做过的事情，想着不曾做过的事情，又想着未来想做的事情
会有带着一点点的紧张，转眼间，我真的二十了

二十岁的今天，想谈谈 #梦想
一年前的我，曾经有着这样的念头：不如就把成绩考好，拿个奖学金，然后就出国展翅高飞。曾经有想过到香港、曾经有想过到新加坡、曾经有想过到美国。大考后呢。。。这梦想好像，不是好像，而是，真的有点难。我依然会保住出国留学的一线希望！
那么，万一真的拿不到呢？其实也有想过的，万一拿不到呢，就去学炒粿条，煮福建面算了吧！
哈哈哈!!!
万一真的拿不到呢，我也想过暂时离开这美丽的小岛到首都去，听说那里样样水准都蛮高的，很想到那里闯闯。
世界真的很大，还有很多东西等着我去见识、还有很多新发现等着我去探讨、很有很多人等着我去认识、还有数不尽的很多很多。。。
记得曾经说过：我想当一位很成功的人！
今天还是会说一样的一句话：我想当一位很成功的人！
成功的定义到底是什么？

读过好几本名人的自传，才发现成功的定义都会随着年龄而改变。
就打个比方吧，
就像一位二十岁刚刚出道的足球员，成功对他来说，可能就是踢很多场球赛，早日成为球队的主力球员，好让自己的能力受到肯定。
那么一位三十岁的足球员呢，成功对他来说，应该是离不开钱财和名誉：可能是收集完所有一位足球员能够收集的奖项、可能是驾跑车开游艇住洋房。
当他四十岁、五十岁、六十岁呢？成功对他来说，也许是回归社会，也许是在足坛里继续发光发热、也许是当一位王牌教练。。。
成功没有捷径。成功需要有付出很多。成功需要做出一定的牺牲。
我想这些每个人都知道，还有什么是我不知道的？我很想知道
当身边有很多厉害的人的时候，自己也会想成为他们的一份子
想出国留学，为了是想要体验外面的世界、学一学独立、接触不同的文化语言
想成功不是为了想和他们媲美，只是他们都是我学习的好榜样，而我也找不到不想成功的理由
世界舞台确实很大，舞台上，个个都扮演着不一样的角色；传说中的世界舞台，究竟是怎样的？
努力追梦！我要登上世界舞台！
当然，也不能一直都靠嘴巴说想成功。。。对，行动！行动！

二十岁的今天，也想谈谈 #家人与朋友
我想他们对我来说，应该是我最不能缺少的人吧。。。
二十岁听起来有点像大人的感觉，但是在父母的眼里，我永远都长不大
偶尔的他们，还是会唠唠叨叨，还是会什么事情都插上一脚
我明白，他们这么做，都是为自己的孩子好
还有家里那一位爱跟我唱反调的妹妹。。。
可能是考试的缘故吧，各忙各的，话题也变少了，再加上目前在打工，也很少有谈话的机会
可能还处于叛逆期吧，总是会有意见起冲突的时候，偶尔会吵架，但问题总是在隔天起床后就没事啦！
我想很快的，我就会升大学，也很有可能被逼暂时和他们分开一会儿，妈说得对，做哥哥的怎样都好，就是要先让步，好吧，就在升学前好好相处吧
接着就是朋友
他们总是很棒。就像刚刚，接到了一通朋友的电话，聊了一阵子，话题里，少不了脏话，也更加少不了对于彼此父母的“问候语”。重点不是在于那些脏话或问候语，可能那时我们沟通方式之一，重点在于彼此之间的那段友谊，他们会记得很多关于你的事情，同样的，你也会记得很多关于他们的事情。
还有那些简讯，他们都还记得。谢谢，确实是有被你们感动到！
今年的生日有点特别，同事们尽然给了我一个惊喜，有生日蛋糕吃还有生日歌听，当时在他们面前我真的就像个小孩子，那种喜悦真的难以形容。谢谢他们！
已经好多年没庆祝生日了的我，遇到这一群同事，除了说谢谢，还是谢谢！

二十岁的今天， 还想谈谈 #爱情
无可否认，二十岁的我依然单身，哈哈哈！
也就像力宏哥所说的那样：爱情是场最美最远的旅行，所以就。。。
在这个年纪的我们，又有谁不渴望爱情呢？
三个字：不能急！我相信那一段时刻会到，那一段让人无能为力、无法抗拒、无路可退的时刻。。。
好吧缘分，不如就赌一把，因为这一次，时间就是我的本钱，我还能等。

原来已经打了那么多字，好痛快！

九把刀说得一点都没错：人。生。就。是。不。停。的。战。斗
接下来有什么打算吗？
下一站：梦想！





我相信二十岁的我还是幸福的。
最后，给二十岁的自己
耀杰，生日快乐！
























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